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You Can Be Direct Without Being Rude

Bryce Purnell
6 min readFeb 27, 2023

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When it comes to communicating effectively, being direct is essential. Unfortunately, many people are hesitant to be direct because they fear it will come off as rude.

Direct not rude communication is possible — Learn Laugh Speak
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However, there are ways to communicate directly without coming across as hostile or insensitive.

In this blog post, we’ll discuss how you can remain clear and direct in your communication without appearing unkind or disrespectful. Keep reading to learn more about how to be direct without being rude.

Start with a Compliment

When being direct and speaking up for yourself, it can be easy to be rude and come across as aggressive. However, there are ways to stay respectful and speak your truth without coming across as rude. A great way to start is by offering a compliment.

Compliments help set the tone for the conversation, giving it a positive energy. This can help the other person feel more comfortable with the conversation, making it easier to get your point across. A simple compliment like “I appreciate you taking the time to listen” or “I value your opinion on this matter” can help put the other person at ease and create a platform of respect.

It is also important to be sincere with your compliments. If you are disingenuous, the other person may take offense. So make sure…

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Bryce Purnell
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