Message to myself: I was always going to prevail but not before I failed.

Bryce Purnell
5 min readOct 13, 2022

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2021 Mexico

This is not about failure. This is an about how to come back from it and keep going. Because, at that moment a part of me deep inside of me died. Because today is a new day and keep in mind.

I will share with you my own story, which might sound familiar, as well as stories of other people who have gone through tough situations and experienced failure and come out stronger on the other side.

I made $1000 a week at 17 and $10,000 a week at 27 and $0 at 28. Before I hit the struggle, I had 3 franchised locations and 7 company-owned Sushi Trains. Learning Laugh Speak now has around 4000 users. The fact that this day has come back is more than a dream to me. I used to dream about it one day and it is a reality now.

I nearly lost my life in 2021 after being given a phone to call my parents from a Mexican hospital bed in case It was my last time to call them.

At the time, I didn’t understand what it meant, but I wasn’t ready to leave. On the way to the hospital, a person died in the ambulance. It wasn’t time for me to leave. It wasn’t over yet. Just 35 years old, the girl next to me was wheeled out and bagged.

As I was in the hospital, I witnessed the Narco taking a life. With a click of a trigger, your life can be taken from you just as with these keystrokes, your life can be created. When life seems to be slipping away from you, keep going. Stay strong. Keep going and always look back to what you left behind.

I was never going to have that phone call with my family.

After 3 weeks in hospital and still visits every single month, people say to not look back on the past but it is hard to forget these times. I looked in the mirror after I was told I would live for the rest of my life and my treatment was working. You are going to feel my loses and of course now you will feel my wins as I have been rebuilding what I had and more.

No matter how difficult things get, never give up on yourself. Pick yourself up and keep moving forward. Learn from your mistakes and failures, and use them as motivation to become even stronger and more successful.

There was no where I wanted to go other then back to the top.

When You Lose It All

No one ever said that life was easy. In fact, it can be quite difficult at times. We all face challenges and setbacks that can make us feel like we’re losing everything. But when you find yourself in this situation, it’s important to remember that you can still keep going.

It might not seem like it at first, but there is always something to hold onto — even if it’s just your determination and willingness to continue fighting. When you lose everything, it can be tempting to give up and resign yourself to a life of misery. But don’t do it! You are stronger than you think, and you can get through anything as long as you don’t give up on yourself.

So when you feel like you’re losing everything, just keep going. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, and you will find your way back to happiness eventually.

When you lose your job, your home, your savings, your family, or anything else that matters to you, it can be tempting to give up. It can feel like you have nothing left to live for. But even in the darkest of times, there is always hope. There is always a reason to keep going.

No matter how bad things seem, remember that they can always get better. Things will get better. You will get through this.

How to Keep Going

When life knocks you down, it can be hard to get back up again. But no matter how difficult things seem, it’s important to keep going. Here are a few tips to help you stay positive and keep moving forward:

1. Believe in yourself

It’s easy to doubt yourself when things are tough, but it’s important to believe in your ability to overcome adversity. Remind yourself of your past accomplishments and know that you have the strength to get through this tough time.

2. Take things one day at a time

Focusing on the future can be overwhelming, so instead take things one day at a time. Break down your goals into small, manageable steps and celebrate each victory along the way.

3. Find a support system

Surround yourself with positive people who will lift you up and help you through tough times. Whether it’s family, friends, or a professional therapist, having someone to talk to can make all the difference.

4. Be mindful of your thoughts

Your thoughts play a big role in how you feel, so make an effort to focus on positive thoughts and let go of negative ones. Practice gratitude and look for the good in each situation, no matter how small it may be.

The Importance of Sharing Your Journey

It’s easy to feel like you’re the only one going through a tough time. But the truth is, we all face hardships and setbacks. That’s why it’s so important to share your journey with others.

When you share your story, you give others permission to do the same. You show them that it’s okay to not be perfect. You remind them that they’re not alone in their struggles. And most importantly, you inspire them to keep going.

So don’t be afraid to share your journey, no matter how difficult it may be. Your story has the power to change lives.

Why it’s Important to Share Your Story

It’s easy to feel like you’re the only one going through tough times, but everyone has a story. Sharing your story can help others feel less alone and remind them that they’re not the only ones struggling. It can also help you connect with others who have been through similar experiences.

When you share your story, you give others permission to do the same. This can create a space for open and honest communication, which can lead to deeper relationships and stronger connections. Sharing your story can also help you process your own experiences and find meaning in them.

So why is it important to share your story? Because doing so can help make the world a little bit lighter, a little bit brighter, and a little bit better.

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Bryce Purnell
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