Be Assertive Not Aggressive: The Only 3 Tips You Need

Bryce Purnell
3 min readJan 12, 2023

Are you feeling overwhelmed and undervalued in the workplace? Are you constantly questioning your authority?

If so, it may be time to learn how to be assertive rather than aggressive. Assertiveness is an important skill to have in business, as it allows you to confidently express yourself and get your point across without being overly aggressive.

Here are 3 simple tips to help you become more assertive and get ahead in business.

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Use I Statements

Being assertive means that you are able to express your needs and opinions without resorting to aggressive behavior.

One of the best ways to communicate assertively is to use “I statements”. This means using language that conveys how you feel without blaming or accusing others.

An example of an I statement would be,

“I feel frustrated when I don’t receive feedback on my work in a timely manner.”

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Bryce Purnell
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